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Call them and ask they come evaluate your husband for any services available.
Do this on Wednesday. Don’t put it off. They can help.
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You mentioned church. Does it have any kind of ministry that would help you like with meals, small jobs around the house like changing a light bulb or filter as well as to come by and visit? My church does all of those things . I've known some churches whose men's groups build wheel chair ramps for people free.
What does your financial situation look like? Do either or both of you have long term care. What money might you have left over if any?
Would assisted living be in the picture financially?
What does your doctor suggest for each of you?
Do need to look into spending down to qualify for medicaid at some point?
Where are, if any, your child(ren) in relation to all of this?
Like I said, you are remarkable! I wish you the best and hope others will respond.
Your city is large enough that they should have services available for handicapped transportation.
Let us know how it works out and please feel free to hang out and chat and help others with your wisdom.
Hugs!
Call your local Area Agency on Aging to get plugged into their services. I know we were able to get two hours a day, four days a week for my parents, which was provided free. You might have to do some planning to coordinate your doctor visits or other outings during this time.
Does your church have any transportation on Sunday mornings? I am aware that smaller churches might not be able to provide this service, but perhaps you could call them and explain your difficulties. They may be able to help with getting your husband in and out of the car.
If finances permit, check into a professional caregivers company like Home Instead. We used them for 15 or 16 years to supplement caregiving of our parents. The Area Agency on Aging can probably give you more information on finding a reliable company.
We have two children, but our son lives abroad and is completely engulfed in his own personal and family things. Our daughter is very caring and helps us a lot, but she has her own issues and problems herself.
Assisted living and long term care are out of the question financially for us. Therefore, our only possibility is getting whatever help is available for seniors, whatever is affordable in our condition.
In Tucson you can call the day before and schedule a ride for 2 dollars, some disabilities are qualifying for one person and a companion for them. They also offer steeply discounted taxi services.
I hope this helps.
I wonder if you could find a lighter walker for dear hubby to use for outings.
Larger churches have medical equipment for loan or gifts.
God bless you for all you do.
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