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I finally hired Home Instead. At first, it was a couple of days a week for 4 hrs. It turned out not to be so bad at all. Home Instead tries to find Caregivers who are compatible with their clients. After a few months, my husband had a small stroke. When he came home, he was getting some OT, PT, and speech therapy, so the house was having strangers everyday. I increased the caregivers to 4 hrs/7days a week/ 365 a year. There was a period of adjustment getting just the right people. I found that the care givers help me too. Sometimes, while they are here, I sleep. Other days, if my husband is sleeping, we talk or watch a movie. They wash his clothing, change his bedding, feed him, change him, talk to him, shave and bathe him and run errands for his benefit. I often work with them for his care.
The caregivers are vetted by Home Instead. My husband is lucky enough that he has a male caregiver 4-5 days per week. It is not weird having another man in the house. He does anything a female caregiver does. My husband totally “loves” him. He’s just a couple of years older than our son. We are blessed.
Had almost issues with HI as they were probably thrilled to get someone to work for them who wasn't illegally here, could speak English, had a decent work ethic and wasn't 18 years old and living on their cell phones.
The family was in and out all day--my client and I did what SHE wanted and needed and I learned quickly to acquiesce to what SHE wanted and what was doable. She had so much energy, I literally could not keep up with her. A 4 day week with her about killed ME.
This family was wonderful and accepted and trusted me after just a few weeks. My client did wind up being placed in a LOVELY assisted living--and she still wanted me couple days a week--but there was no need for me.
I took a break ad decided to try Visting Angels--(you need to know that theses agencies are franchised out, so what I got here in UT might be totally a 180 from what someone in CA would experience. This particular agency was poorly run and I didn't stay more than a month. They kept giving me clients who weighed over 300 lbs and expected me to help them get up and down and into my car.
I couldn't seem to get a good 'match' with them so I quit.
Be aware that although the client pays a lot for theses services, the CG doesn't get much more than minimum wage. And usually no raises. It's depressing at times.
Good Luck in this. I wish so much we had gotten Mother to accept care from HI. She wanted help, but YB but the kibosh on it and now he has double the workload.
I can't stand being home when my cleaning person comes. I go out, even just to the library, while she is here.
. Sometimes you both want ‘a friend for company’. Sometimes you don’t – one or both wants quiet personal space. I found it hard to be at home with a chatty cleaner.
' Sometimes you have lunch or a cuppa together, sometimes not. Perhaps ‘your’ rooms are out of bounds. Hurt feelings?
. Sometimes it’s all flexible. Caregiver will do more than the contract says if she has time, and you will let the hours change. Then again sometimes carer is on the phone if the agreed jobs run out.
' Some are honest, some aren’t. You can’t tell. You ought to put away everything valuable, including your wallet. It changes your house. My sister had $1000 stolen from her wallet by the ‘nicest’ person – she even came to BIL’s funeral and cried!
Try to sort it out in the contract, the first interview, and by taking up references if possible.
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