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Realize that grandfather is living in a different reality from what he was before. It's also different from your own reality. You're thinking of what you want to be true - getting him back to his previous "normal" or whatever. You're at a different stage of life than he is, and unless he is threatening to harm himself or others, it might be best to let him transit this stage in his own way. He's not going to understand your viewpoint any more than you understand his.
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Dialectical behavior therapy is an evidence-based psychotherapy that began with efforts to treat personality disorders and interpersonal conflicts. Evidence suggests that DBT can be useful in treating mood disorders and suicidal ideation, as well as for changing behavioral patterns such as self-harm and substance use.
I think it's truly a stretch to believe your grandfather will be interested in doing DBT workbook sheets. You can give it a try, but don't get your hopes up. What may be a better thing to do is get him a full medical evaluation by his doctor, including a cognition evaluation to see if he's going down the dementia highway right now.
I will also say that if grandfather is cutting himself or threatening to commit suicide, I'd notify the RN at his AL and request that he be taken by ambulance to the ER the next time he posts or utters such a threat, or evidence is seen that he's cut himself, or harmed himself in any way. Once at the ER, he'll be given a psych evaluation to see where he's at with his mental illness and what meds, if any, are required to stabilize his mood.
Best of luck.