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Doorways that would accommodate a walker and then, a wheel chair, where changes that they made. Oh, and a ramp into the house.
My Mother was always cold. she wanted the heat cranked up and no A/C, ever. So, there were additional utility bills.
My MIL liked to get up at 5AM and clank around in my kitchen, that was maddening, every day.
Good luck. There are books you can read on the subject.
Talk to her MD about what changes need to be done to bathrooms and stairs. There is no funding for that, so decide who pays for what.
Understand now that she will be anxious about moving and may resent not being in charge of the kitchen. She will be bored, so make sure she has a social outlet either with friends or the senior center. Do not give up your own routines or social circles or YOU will be the one anxious and depressed.
We need a lot more information to be able to answer your question very well. If you have a bedroom for her with furniture she likes and if you know you can get along, I don't see a problem.
I think first of all, you need to evaluate yourself and your situation health wise both mentally and physically -plus financially for this is a major decision which will involve not only her care for right now but also for whatever develops?
Are you up to the challenge?
How old is she? How much care dose she need and how close is she to needing 24/7 care for that will come at some point? Does she have dementia or Alzheimer's or is it just stating?
Do you have a plan for when 24/7 care is needed.
Are you working? Will you have to stop work and give up not only income and building up social security etc. toward your own retirement, but also your own health insurance
Does your mother have financial assets to pay for extra help in the future.
What if any mobility issues does your mother have than might mean modifying your house?
Sorry that I don't have any answers, but I think these are some important questions to wrestle with.
Good luck and keep in touch.