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W/O replacing the battery on the PM. she will not last long. An elderly woman I knew kept on top of that UNTIL she was in end stage heart failure--and she refused to replace the battery. She was done. Died quietly a couple of days after the battery was totally discharged.
At some point, you need to ask yourself exactly WHAT you want for mom, and what she wants for herself. Living for the sake of being alive--with no QOL is a very personal thing.
Keeping her comfortable with the water pills is one thing. Replacing a pacemaker battery to buy a few more months is another.
Sounds like you're in a similar situation with your mom. At this point I would just honor her wishes about the pace maker(does it really make sense at this point anyway?) and make sure that she is as comfortable as possible. Best wishes in the days ahead.
But I'm not sure, as I remember it, that it is quite so horrible for the person who is experiencing it. The main symptom - is this so with your mother? - is extreme fatigue.
If in spite of everything you can ensure that she is not frightened, not in pain, and as far as possible not depressed and frustrated by her lack of energy, you will be doing well. Assuming that neither you nor your mother like the idea of rousting out a couple of cardiologists, banging their heads together, and hoping they'll come up with better, smoother, more orderly management of her diuretics, I should try to focus on how she is feeling in the here-and-now. As long as she's okay, then you must try to be okay.
I should also try not to worry about her pacemaker's battery - they don't just conk out, all of a sudden, even when you're long past the "change by" date. What is the pacemaker actually doing for her? Does it have a defibrillator built-in?
Hospice was so good before the virus outbreak. Now we only get one nurse a week and her cna once a week. But if we needed them more, they would come. I help her manage, but I have to be careful as I am treating for cancer. I have non Hodgkin’s lymphoma. Mom doesn’t know it though. I tell her I’m treating for 2 auto-immune diseases and she believes me. I actually have the auto-immune diseases too and treat with immuno therapy for them.
I expect the hospice doctor may take her off the water pills soon because of her low b/p. But then she will blow-up with more edema. It’s a roller coaster ride.
My dad was on hospice for CHF for about 6 months when he passed. He had both leg edema and was on an oxygen concentrator. He just got weaker and weaker, His last EF, from an echocardiogram done about 4 months before he died, was about 30%.
Father in law had same issues, in AL with full time private caregivers, had an EF of 13% shortly before he passed away.
So depending on the EF, could be months to weeks. When the pacemaker battery dies, that may be the end as well.
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