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I can't get the senior here to take vitamins for which he was prescribed(over the counter strength vitamins). It's a form of control and they rationalize by with it being their health-which it is but they should not be complaining about their issues then. Nor complain about the bills, doctors office waiting rooms, home care barking about privacy etc.
Tell her it's her choice to not take meds, eat, or follow doctor's orders. When she becomes sick and frail enough, she will be put in a nursing home where the nurses will fuss over her all day.
No. I have not had that experience. I have had and known elders to not take meds but not to get attention. Most people do not want to go to the hospital...for any reason.
But if your mom is doing this I would suspect cognitive decline and consider the suggestion to get her the proper testing. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to be doubting her if you found she had psychiatric issues although I do understand how trying it can be.
Perhaps she feels something is wrong and is doing all she knows to get help for it, not realizing that it’s a mental condition ( if it is) or how to help herself.
It’s hard for us to realize that if our joints are achy or her skin is wrinkled or maybe we have gallbladder or heart issues that we can also have something wrong with our brains. The brain can work most of the time like our achy joints can work most of the time but be impaired just enough to not be able to think properly or reason out that the course of action to skip meds and go to the hospital is faulty.
Maybe one way to assess this a bit for yourself is to think back on her previous actions. Has she always wanted more attention than others. Has she always wanted to go to the hospital? Has she always refused needed medication?
Have you asked for a psychiatric evaluation?