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I'd read a lot about dementia, since, that's what your subsequent post says he has. As the dementia progresses the brain and body change. Dementia is terminal. I'd try to determine at what phase your father is in.
I'd inquire from his doctor about hospice or you can contact one yourself and ask for an evaluation. They can offer help. With covid, I'd ask what the home services are at this time. Normally, they offer home help with his care and nurse that sees him once a week. Not sure how covid effects that. They offer supplies, equipment, like hospital bed, wheelchair, etc. which is covered by Medicare. They also have a social worker and chaplain to help the family. They may be able to evaluate his condition and let you know what to expect with your father moving forward.
Most people who have dementia eventually become bedbound and often are not able to do anything at all, even feed themselves. I hope you can get him and your family some help.
Speak to his Doctor for additional advice regarding your concerns.
Please rethink your resistance to this. Best wishes..
As stated by others, could be something medical. Could be depression. Does he have a lot of pain? On any new(ish) meds?
When you try to get him up, I'm assuming he basically is fighting you and just wanting to stay in bed? Does he want to eat? Is he bored? Does he have anything to do and anything to look forward to?
So many question, sorry! Just probing to see what path this might be on.
I would say to try not to get so annoyed with him wanting to sleep. Try to find out why and if there is no "answer", maybe you need to adjust your thinking on it so that you can not be getting upset every day. That's no good for you. If he's OK and for some reason wants to stay in bed, maybe you're going to have to try to accept that, for your own sanity.