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People are placed in continuing care facilities because they need 3 full-time shifts of care. Alzheimer's/Dementia stages can change quickly over time, and especially if there is a fall involved. Have you spoken with your Dad since his fall? Some people can sound good over the phone as they are focusing on the phone conversation, thus not distracted by things around them. Once they hang-up, it's another story.
Please get up to speed regarding Alzheimer's/Dementia, there is quite a bit to learn about this very confusing disease. Go to the blue bar near the top of the page, click on SENIOR LIVING.... now click on ALZHEIMER'S CARE.... scroll down to all the articles.
Let us know how things turn out.
OTOH, if you go and the place is really bad from top to bottom, and he is actually independent in self-care and doing the Mew York Times crosswords, it's a different story, there are very different routes you would take to help him, but I think that is not what you will find. Sorry you are facing this and hoping for the best for all of you!
My step sister wants to know when I plan to visit so that she can tell dad's caregivers at home that I'm coming to visit. She likes me to visit when she has a day off from work so that we can visit and discuss my dad's care alone.
For your dad to be in a Nursing home means that doctor decided that that was where he needed to be for the best care and his safety. You may want to read some of the articles on this site about Alzheimer's and learn more about it.
If the nursing home doctor considers him to be an unsafe discharge, I would not try to go against him.
Since he was living with her in her house in PA, how did he end up in a nursing home in NY? How far does she live from his nursing home?
This would cost you a LOT of out of pocket money and you will be caring for him in your home 24/7/365. Please reconsider.
What kind of paper work does your sister have?
Being his durable POA only means that she can pay his bills using his money. Being his medical POA means she can have some input in his behalf concerning his treatment. If he is competent and can get to a lawyer, he can change who the POA is, but that is his choice.
If she has guardianship, however that would mean that he's been declared incompetent. You could take her to court to become his guardian. That, however would likely damage your relationship with your half sister permanently.