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The other problem is that Hospice will not care for the patient in home if the patient needs and doesn't have 24/7 care, and there's the rub. That can be family or anyone else but if there is no family as was the case for my friend, then you are paying a whole lot of money for even a sitter. My friend had two women who did 12 hour shifts at 20.00 an hour (cheap at that) until she died. Figure out the daily cost on that.
So that basically is hospice today. If the doctor will order hospice for you or for the loved one you are writing about then interview them and have your questions lined up. As bad as they have become compared to what Hospice once was they are the best we have for pain free final exit, and thus to be treasured so long as we are able to keep them.
If you have more specific questions, do ask them and hopefully someone here can help.
The fault of those costs lies with our dear health care system and the profiteering insurance companies. THEY are the ones who decide what gets covered and what doesn't. Then there's the way our society prioritizes the elderly (that is, not at all).
I'm a hospice volunteer, AlvaDeer, and I have to say, reading your post got my cockles up. I don't get paid, I give my energy and time to strangers to help them at a difficult, sad time. The CNAs and nurses (and all the others) are called to this work, not randomly assigned. We do this because we believe in the program. No, home hospice doesn't do everything. But we do a lot, and most people who turn to home hospice are grateful and wish only they had done it earlier.
But keep in mind that even though they cover everything, you still will be doing 99% of the work/care, as a nurse coming once a week and aides coming to bathe twice a week are really not all that much help in the big picture of things.
As a volunteer, I visit my clients once or twice a week. I'm only allowed to do four hours of work per week, so my current client's spouse consolidates this time so she can run errands or do some self care. I read to my client, hold his hand, sing to him, sometimes just sit there and watch him sleep. I help the wife unload groceries and talk to her about how she's doing. Often, my client and client's family and me become quite close.
People misunderstand and think that hospice provides all the care, all the time. However, it's possible to check your loved one into the hospital or a residential hospice for a break…say you're going to a wedding. This is where cost comes in, depending on your insurance. Medicare won't cover the "room and board" care at a care facility or hospital. They WILL pay for the meds, doctor consults, nurses, CNAs, etc. If you have supplemental insurance, they might cover this.
I hope your loved one has a peaceful time, and this is a tender time for all involved.
The visit by the Nurse, CNA, Social Worker, Chaplain and any "therapies" are all covered as are supplies, equipment and medications.
BUT...They are not there 24/7/365.
It is best if you have help. A paid caregiver or family member that can help out a few days a week for 4-6 hours minimum.
Hospice can provide a Volunteer that can come 1 time a week for a maximum of 4 hours. But they can not do any "hands on care" so no feeding, toileting, changing the patient.
A GREAT benefit of Hospice is that Medicare, Medicaid will cover the cost of almost 1 week of Respite care each year. So you can get away, get a break or take care of other family emergencies that may come up.
I would not have been able to keep my Husband at home if I had not had Hospice in.
A nurse only comes in once a week; however, they are on call 24/7 so I do not have to worry about doctors' visits, emergency rooms or Urgent care visits.
They also handle all of my wife's medications.
It is a big help that an aide comes in twice a week and takes care of showering, hair washing and overall freshening up.
I do have a caregiver come in 3 times a week for 4-6 hours so that I can get out on the golf course.
The caregiver is my cost at about $20/hr but she makes a big difference in my health and quality of life.
I am so glad my caregiver pointed me in the right direction to find hospice.
Jamie
Having the bath aide was very helpful; I felt my MIL was more comfortable with her experience and confidence than when I was showering her. I changed the bed while she was being showered. Medicare picked up the entire cost and even paid for some things that were previously out of pocket: incontinence briefs and wipes and 100% coverage of medications. They brought out oxygen equipment in case she needed it. We still had to buy toiletries and Ensure, and we also purchased briefs because she preferred a different brand than what was provided. There is also a respite care benefit (five days per year I think) that we didn't use. I believe they also would have provided equipment like a hospital bed that we also didn't use. We had purchased a walker and shower chair before she went on Hospice but that may have been included as well.
Yes, they send aides out a couple times of week to bathe the patient, but to "sit and chat or have a meal with," unheard of.
I know that hospice has volunteers that will come visit a patient for a short time, but they are only there to visit.
I had to hire an aide to come 7 days a week to put my husband on the bedside commode so he could poop. And like I said in my initial response on this post, 99% of my husbands care was still on me while hospice was involved, right up until his death.