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Tell us more, though...why did you end up being the one to give up your job to take care of your parents? Are you getting compensation? I'm assuming that your brother and sister were able to keep their jobs? How old is your mother? How old are you?
So often the caregivers give up their financial future (as well as their physical and mental health) when they become elder caregivers. Are you satisfied with the situation?
You started antidepressants and are seeing a therapist. I hope the therapist has more ideas on how to help you other than finding caregiver support forums.
I think part of it is I am the only one not married with kids. They figured I am free to go it but idk now it happened and I am the one it happen too.
I'm glad you found us. This is an active site and a great place to get and give support.
I'm not aware of another site but I would think that there's bound to be one out there. Hopefully someone will come along who knows of another site.
Good for you for taking steps to take care of your emotional health. Caregiving is very isolating. We're social creatures who need other people. My dad is gone now but when I cared for him I felt very isolated and if I accidently found myself in a social conversation I felt I had nothing to offer. And I'm talking about polite chit-chat on line at the grocery store or something like that. It's like all of my social skills had deteriorated and I felt awkward and isolated and depressed. But those skills were there the whole time, I just hadn't been using them.
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