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Feeling frustrated now can lead to anger and resentment about your situation. Don't let that happen. Determine what your tolerance for caregiving is, what are your limits, when do you need to seek a new “home” for your husband. Yes, that time may come.
And lastly, educate yourself about your husband's disease. Find books on dementia (your library or Amazon), Google “dementia”, and find dementia YouTube videos.
You are not alone .
Caregiving is isolating and does cause loneliness, especially during COVID.
Please stay safe. It isn’t worth socializing to avoid being lonely.
Stay in touch with others online. I see from your profile that you are Catholic. We are a Catholic family as well. I watch the Mass on television or online.
Best wishes to you and your family.
And I'm glad to read that you still have humor in your lives, as that will certainly come in handy when times get tough. As far as your frustration is concerned, and since I'm not sure where exactly it's coming from, I can only say to make sure you're taking care of yourself, by making time for yourself(away from hubby if necessary)and doing little things that you enjoy. Also it's always good to educate yourself on what exactly your husbands issues are, so you will be better equipped to deal with whatever lies ahead. You can like others have suggested too, "Google" local support groups in your area. They can be a lifesaver for sure, as they were for me during my caregiving journey. I wish you the best.
I am glad you found this forum. Please stay around and read and comment. You will find us a wonderful supportive group.