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P.S. I am an RN and take care of dialysis patients (as well as other types of patients) in a hospital.
Will he sit still for 3 or so hours and not try to get up or pull out lines? That could be deadly.
Did you ask about side effects post dialysis?
What decisions will be made if he goes on hospice?
He most likely never be a transplant candidate. At this time you might want to get a hospice consult to balance the decision making
From: ElizabethAR37
I'm 86 and competent (at least as far as I know). FWIW, if I could still participate in making a choice, I likely would refuse dialysis and elect hospice/palliative care were I in the elder's position here. From what I've read/heard, the dialysis process is physically draining for the patient and time consuming. Frankly, I'm too old for that!
- What factors are making this decision difficult?
- Does he understand he needs it and what it entails? Would he be compliant with the dialysis?
- Who would be driving him, staying with him during dialysis? Is the nearest dialysis center in reasonable proximity?
- Does he have other health issues?
- Are you his MPoA?
Per your profile, you have a lot on your plate already if you are his main/only caregiver...
We asked if there were any alternatives. The doctors said we could possibly reverse it if we could RADICALLY change his diet. So we met with a kidney specialist and still currently meeting by Zoom with a dietician every month who specializes in this area. By completing changing his diet, eliminating all meat protein, as well as eggs, dairy, and as much potassium as possible (which is very hard on the kidneys), we were able to bring his labs back into range and eliminate the need for dialysis. While I realize this is not possible for everyone, it is worth discussing with his doctors. It isn't easy because of the labor-intensive food preparation (which falls on me). I follow the diet with him to support his efforts. We have to eat extra plant protein and take calcium supplements. If you had told me six months ago it is possible to reverse the need for dialysis just by changing diet, I never would have believed you. But I believe now!! I am also praising God for this turn of events as neither of us was ready to lose him to this disease. The doctors were amazed and say if we can stay on the diet, the prognosis looks good. Best wishes to you both!!
Improve symptoms & quality of life?
Extend life?
Please discuss options with the doctor and with Hospice.
Depending on the stage of Kidney Disease would depend on the life expectancy if he deicides to discontinue dialysis.
If dad is fully cognizant he and you and any caregiver should be made fully aware of the process that he will go though.
Hospice can help with symptoms and pain management.