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Mom had 4 kids. Me the oldest, a sister, brother#1(golden child) and brother #2. She got to the point she never mentioned my sister or brother #2. It was like she had only 2 children, me and brother#2. She kept telling me I needed to call him. Not for her, for me. Told her not really and she would get mad. Have no idea why she felt this way. There is a 10 1/2 year difference. Not that I don't love him, just nothing common. My oldest was out if school when he had his first. So I'll kids are soaced far apart.
I get so tired of parents comparing their children and always passing judgment on the one that helps the most. They sure have trained their children well so they stick around and take the abuse. I would be gone as a caregiver and maybe even as a daughter if the abuse didn't stop.
I have a similar situation with my mother. She's not really angry, but, sharp and dismissive. She favors the baby boy in the family ad it's so over the top that it's embarrassing. I've had my feelings hurt so many times. I've decided to just do my best to ignore it. I can't change a person who is up in age and stubborn. She's always been this way, though. I've learned to seek support, kindness and approval from reasonable people who don't play favorites. My dad is pretty good about it. He's more fair, as are all other family members.
Do you have POA or HCPOA? I hope you haven't given up a job to take care them, thus putting your own finances (and financial future) at risk!