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Your Mom's dementia/memory impairment prevents her from being convinced of anything, or remembering to use the Rollator. She is less and less able to use reason and logic in her everyday life. She is now a very high fall risk. Being frail as well, a likely trajectory may be she breaks a hip and then becomes bed-bound (plus has dementia). Then how will this impact the plan to keep her in her home?
My Aunt with advanced dementia got out of her bed and fell, breaking her hip. Even while in rehab she attempted to get out of bed. I was in the process of interviewing facilities for her when she mercifully passed in her sleep (100 yrs old). She had been living in her home (with her older sister) aided by 2 family caregivers. Becoming bed-bound caused us to re-evaluate that arrangement.
You certainly can choose to be her in-home caregiver, just suggesting you go into it with your eyes fully open. Because you seem to believe you can convince someone with dementia to do something that is good for them, it indicates you may need to understand dementia better. I learned a lot from Teepa Snow videos on YouTube.
Now what you should do is ask her these questions (if the info is not already written down. )
If something should happen do you want :
CPR preformed?
Artificial Nutrition (feeding tube) and if so for how long?
Intubation? If so for how long?
And you might want to ask about planning her funeral.
You do mention in your profile (thank you for adding information) that mom has Alzheimer's / Dementia. If this is the case then she should not be living alone. And she will not "remember" to use the walker. She will fall eventually, falls will happen it does not matter if she has aides there 24/7, is in a care facility or you are standing at her side.
Unfortunately in a case like this sometimes you have to wait until a change is forced in some way or another.
Now if mom is not cognizant she should not be living alone. Either the aides need to be 24/7 or she needs to enter into a facility that will meet her care needs.
Keep things as safe as you can and hope for the best is about all I can advise. Sure wish you the best.