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Now they are 90+ you want to set boundaries? I understand, your a Senior too with health problems of your own and your tired. Tell them that. You don't have the energy to cater to their every whim.
You either have a "come to Jesus talk" with Mom and Dad or except this is your life until they die. And your poor husband, he is a Saint. He is looked over and does not seem to complain. He must really love you.
You were shut down because your postings go no where. You just complain. This is a forum for those with problems they had no part in causing and need help. You caused your own problems by allowing your parents to be too involved in your life. Now you are suffering the consequences.
The cherry on top of this tall sundae is for you to return here and believe you are the victim . I’m sure you learned to play the victim role very well from your mother.
People tire of this , just like people tire of alcoholics , drug addicts etc . who don’t try to improve .
You have to want to make changes or people will walk away .
Nothing is more frustrating than listening to an OP shoot down all suggestions either insisting they tried that or knowing it just won't work...and we all know they haven't tried it, they just want to complain and not put in the effort to make a change happen.
This isn't a forum for patting someone of the back for being a martyr. We are trying to give real life perspectives on real issues. But if you refuse to take any action people will get short with you.
You do have a lot of drama in your life, I can say that.
Easy to be mean when you dont hear a persons voice, look at their face, their eyes etc
Same reason road rage is an issue. People would rarely be that mean to each other in direct contact, but in cars you are behind a veil
In both those cases admin decided there was nothing further to be said. Same as your previous threads, which you’ve had a considerable amount of leash on.
There are people that truly want to help!! People that care, people that take time out of there lives to help others, not because they are addicted to social media.
But because they want to help people with things that they may have been though. That's why many of us are here.
All you want to do is ask or vent and take no advice.
I'm going to be honest I see you as rather way to much into yourself, others need help to.
And I don't see you ever helping another person or even attempt to.
It's all about you always.
I'm trying not to get angry here, but I'm sitting at the doctors, while my mom is getting a covid test. Life is not all about you all the time.
Others have issues and problems too.