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We're lifting you up in thought tonight
Your words, decisions, the way you have figured this all out makes perfect sense.
I know you have eyes on your Mom's situation. I just want to be supportive.
I trust your assessment, that your despair about the place is not felt as deeply by your Mom is true and accurate.
Keep talking this out to gain the acceptance you need.
You have been Mom's hero for so long now.
Getting a little help from friends here and your sister-it's time, it's ok.
See you over on the dinner thread...is there any more Italian on the menu?
Hmm, I've rewritten this 5 times trying to get the words to come out right.... I think maybe my own despair about the place isn't felt as deeply by my mom, I've got to learn to step back and accept that it's OK.
Will you be considering a change in the NH?
Are there any better choices-I guess if there were, you would do that.
Thinking of you.....
I suspect your sister has already detached from worrying about mom ?
Milk shakes and French fries are a good combo
PB &J sandwich with french fries. What time is dinner? Got milk?
Sis was here to help move mom in so she has been to the NH before. She thought mom seemed OK today. She also says she is willing herself to find the positive and ignore the negative, great idea if you can pull it off.
How old is the NH wing? I know I visited there as a child and it wasn't new then lol. One of my first thoughts was that this old building is a fire trap, but I also noticed there are sprinklers and automatic fire doors.
After retirement, there should be a law. One that says we will never have to wait in long lines again, especially at the elavator. oh wait! There are laws...
Fire Code quick evacuation laws in case of fire. There is a fire escape? How old is this place?
As for eating in mom's room, definitely No. Uh, uh. No way. Maybe when the weather warms up we can try snacks out on the patio.
Did you skip your spring cleaning because caregiving took precedent?
How about ordering up some carpet cleaner company? Nothing too big to wear you out.
What about once or twice a week you tell the staff that Mom won't be at the table and you share lunch with her in her room? You bring your own, bring Mom's tray up to her room? Maybe there are rules?
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That is exactly why I cut my own hair, keeping it shoulder length even though shorter may be more comfortable.
Can you use some styling gel, maybe spike it? Videos online can help.
My condolences on your hair. Hoping it soon suits you better.
As a dishwater blonde, I am thinking of going natural with grey and whatever will be growing in, so I watched tons of youtube videos on how to grey, while still looking vibrant. Oh well, nothing wrong with staying blonde. But a friend went all gray natural, it looks great, she's only 60.
Then, there are makeup videos for women over 60.
I color and cut my own hair, except for the few rescue professional cuts per year. So, mostly I avoid the mirrors.
It's true then, about you. You go where eagles fly.
Those bad birds, there is an entire car to poop on! The crows drop it on the drivers side window where they know I'll see it! They do it on purpose, I'm sure!
There is no leaving the driveway until it's squirted off! (By hubs, of course!)
Or you get up and raid the fridge, find the chocolate.
What if you're lonely in the middle of the night?
Lately my car has been a target for bird poop - and while parked in the driveway - odd places too
The tire - the drivers door
It's like they're trying to irritate me - lol