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i may not have time to read an actual book right now lol but when I do I hope this will be on my list;)
These jobs are difficult but do not require a high level of skill or education so they do not command high salaries. Plus higher pay for workers would push the cost of care even higher. Government only makes things worse with all it's incompetence and waste, so that is clearly not the answer. As the great Thomas Sowell says, "There are no solutions; there are only trade-offs." We have to keep doing the best we can with what we have and hope for innovations and medical advancements in the future.
I just believe the shock value, nursing home books guilt people. There is nothing wrong with informed decisions but they are not a solution.
It's good not to bury our heads in the sand but I think anyone who hasn't heard or seen shocking things about the state of elder care in the Western World must be wilfully ignorant because these stories are everywhere, especially since covid has ravaged those facilities. I don't think placing a cherished family member in an AL or NH is often the preferred choice, but the unfortunate reality is that some people need more care than can be given at home. Modern lifestyles and medical intervention have combined to keep very compromised people with high needs living for so many years (or decades) that it is unsustainable for family caregivers, some of whom are elderly themselves and trying meet the needs of parents that are nonagenarians or older.
When you have someone in your home and it is beyond 24/7, it is like 48/7, the last thing you want to read is about that. I much prefer listening to Elon Musk podcasts about aliens while trying to figure out if he is AI. It is a pleasant distraction.
I wouldn't read economic analyses by someone who's lost money from poor investments; I'd read (and do read) books by those who actually practice in the field.
Timetotellit, I don't mean to criticize you; every person has his/her own approach, and it's easy to read something with strong points and take it as truth.
I suspect you've had some negative experiences, and for that I'm sorry for you and your family.
Funny, considering we are all stepping towards old age from the moment we are born. We KNOW it's coming. Yet...
However, I must differ on "those of us who have had someone in a facility already understand all of their shortcomings". They are no doubt aware of some "shortcomings", but even those involved on a near daily basis have no clue.
Oma, a wonderful lady whose story is told in the book, is a typical example. Her enormous and loving family were constantly involved... highly attentive... strong advocates for her... yet she suffered needlessly, died a miserable and untimely death...
Awareness is crucial.
God bless you!
I think that the reality is that these kind of tell all books and exposés have limited appeal - those of us who have had someone in a facility already understand all of their shortcomings, and those who don't do not see any reason to know.