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She was put on countless anti-epileptic medications, one at a time of course. She would flip out and have bad reactions. She was taken off of each one of them right away. Then they put her in the hospital and took her off all her meds one at a time and discovered she didn't have AD w/ side effects of Epilepsy. They made a diagnosis of AD w/ side effects of Parkinson's Disease. She went into a nursing home for rehab and was doing much better. She came home on a low dose of Depakote 4x/day. She still remains on it but has mini-strokes. It's better than the flipping out where she almost kicked me down a flight of stairs and went for my throat, but missed. Another time, she tried to kick me in my lower private area. I don't miss those times at all.
...but I do feel for you. Get a dr. appt. set up for your aunt or whomever is in charge of her.
Take care,
Laura H.
After four days and every test possible (but hey, let's not call in gastroenterology!) hospitalization, the doc finally figured "it was in her head." Mom wasn't able to make sense of her digestive pain (which would press on her heart and lungs...felt like dying), didn't remember there was a ten minute simple remedy, and went inside...and got lost in her own disappearing act. The docs were all too ready to say this was the onramp to final stage Alzheimers, complete with slippery slope hand motions, so I'd be sure to understand. I was turned over to palliative care team.
So, while the system was aimed to getting rid of her, out of their ER and hospital, the meds they Rx'd did stop both the digestive problems (Prilosec, probably acid reflux) and anxiety. Think that gave Mom time to physically recover and FORGET the coping behavior she had developed. We haven't had a zone-out episode since she was in the hospital. And any minor digestive discomfort is handled like anyone would with an understanding that simethicone would help her in a few minutes. Actually, most of her discomfort was probably from swallowing air while she drinks, and she often belches this up.
After witnessing a few episodes in the hospital, including three combative ones where she was trying to stop the doctors from prodding her stomach, I pretty much thought she was putting on an act at some points. Turning into stone so people would leave her alone. A Junior Mint would bring her back to life, and even the nurses got on board the mint routine. Try it first.
Not a doctor but it was what I saw.
Carol
Dad was really doing poorly when I moved him to his current facility. He'd recently been hospitalized for a horrible UTI, and when released to a nursing home downstate, was not thriving. I moved him closer to me, and believe it saved his life. I haven't seen one of those episodes in over 11 months. However, he does sleep a lot more, and there's other strange behavior they are monitoring. I'm told it's all part and parcel of their disease.
Linda, gathering all the information you can about her condition may help you cope, a little. I also attend a support group, and learn from others how they manage with the feelings watching a loved one struggle through difficult things. Just knowing it can be a common thing, and that others understand, is helpful as well. Hopefully, your aunt is getting proper medication, which can affect things as well. My Dad's medications are monitored and changed often, as he progresses through the various stages of his disease. If you can, talk to her health care providers, and make sure she's getting all the help she needs.
I saw this, but a seizure was usually the case, though my dad's eye's would roll back alarmingly when he was having a bad day (his dementia was caused by surgery, not Alzheimer's).
Check back as many people on the site have had different experiences. Maybe someone else has seem exactly what you describe.
Carol